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The only thing you SHOULD do is to do YOU

Part of my 50 Years #50 Wisdoms journey. Come on board as I hurtle towards 50 on the 1st of January 2020.
I was chatting with a lady-pal recently and she told me someone told her she should soften her approach a little bit. Apparently, she’s too strong, too out there, and too dominating to attract a man into her life.
Nothing does my head in more than women being told to shrink themselves. Nothing does my head in more than women being told what they should do.
I’ve dealt with a lot of that on my journey. But this conversation inspired a strong and very relevant memory. Hello LA
It was around the year 2000 and I was in Los Angeles with an old mate. We stayed in Venice Beach and I’ve got to tell you, there is no crazier city in the world than LA. It’s completely mind blowing.
Anyhoo all along Venice Beach there are fortune tellers selling their wares, and the friend I was with decided to give it a go. I hung around but didn’t want to do it – I’m not against it, I just wasn’t in the mood th…

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